Surrender to your own higher Self
When you are disciplined by yourself, you are surrendering to yourself. It is, as I explained, you don't surrender to somebody else. It is surrendering to your own higher Self. When I make a plan, I discipline my mind so that it is not free in the common sense that it can do what it likes. Surrender is the proper utilization of your capacity.
Taken from the book "HeartSpeak 2007 (1st edn., 2008)", Chapter "Questions and Answers – II", pg. 65, by Revered Chariji